You Can't Be Half Pregnant! Loving or Selfish - Take Your Pick

We do our kids a great disservice when we make them the "special ones." They need our help and we are the ones who are at fault. Without mentally, emotionally, sexually, and psychically abusive parents our kids would not have any problems. They would be responding to love, not to someone consciously and subconsciously enacting all kinds of destructive

patterns.

We all enact negative patterns and make excuses for them. There is no excuse. We are either choosing to love or we are not. It's like being pregnant. You can't be half pregnant. At any given moment a person is choosing to love or not. There are no degrees of love. There are plenty of degrees of selfishness, and plenty of excuses for making wrong unloving choices. We all know our "bad habits" well (I love euphemisms - they are great for clouding reality), yet we continue on and blame our kids for their reactions to how we consciously and subconsciously treat them.

"Autistic children have special abilities they are put here to be our teachers." Nonsense! Of course autistic children have special abilities. They are abilities acquired from their choice to live in another world. That does not mean that they are not living in a mental and emotional nightmare. Most of them feel alone, angry, isolated, and beyond repair.

I, personally, can read subconscious intentions, thoughts, feelings, and actions. I can see a person's thoughts in the form of pictures the way fetuses and infants do. I can see on this subconscious level because I have lived there my entire lifetime. Fortunately, I have also been able to interact, but not without a struggle.

As I said in my last article ("The Truth about Autism - A Clairvoyant's View,") parents of autistic children, and all of us have to change our destructive reactive behaviors. As I keep saying, we all know our "dark sides" (another euphemism!) but we keep them in check with our excuses and our refusal to even acknowledge them. Try telling any parent with a problem child, I.e. a child with a mental, emotional or behavioral disorder that their child is in severe reaction to them and their conscious and subconscious destructive, wrong choices - Good luck! Maybe it is all of our attitudes that have pushed us so far in the other direction - the "It's not your fault" direction.

Mental, emotional, and behavioral dysfunctions = choice. That is the equation. Albeit, most often a subconscious choice. That is, psychological = choice, always!

Physical disabilities = genetics, or any kind of physical cause or circumstance. That is, physical handicaps = a physical cause, always!

Getting the two mixed up is convenient but it is to our great determent.

An example: Just look at a room filled with physically disabled kids; some are choosing to be nice and some are choosing to be not so nice. Some can be acting destructively, while others are caring about learning or caring about those around them. It is all in the heart, in the soul, if you will. In any given moment you have only one essential choice. That choice is to love or not to love, remember - no degrees. You can't be half pregnant. We make it so complicated, but it is really that simple.